Stand There!

I came across this quote and was profoundly touched by the reversal of it's simple truth. When a loved one is suffering, we usually want to bring a meal, watch his/her children, or send a kind text. While these are all thoughtful gestures, what we sometimes miss out on is really standing with someone in their pain. Lending a listening ear, giving space to be silent, extending time for the loved one to either scream or cry--these are just a few simple ways we can stand in someone's pain. For a "do-er" like me, this is a challenge and a great reminder that sometimes "standing there" is the best way to express our love and concern.
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